Tuesday, April 27, 2010

kenapa??

kenapa last2 sem ni aku jadi malas sgt. malas nak study. fikiran asyik menerawang entah ke mana. :( malas sgt kah aku?? maybe sbb sem ni aku terlalu busy, terlalu penat sampai aku lupa aku ada lagi 2 subject untuk aku fokus sem ni. aku benci n terlalu letih. minggu depan dah final exam. aku still x study apa2. aku xdak mood n aku x mencari pun mood tu. aku lebih byk fikir benda2 lain yg x penting. kenapa dgn aku ni??

pointer aku x boleh jatuh sem ni. tapi.....................................................................................................................................

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Perempuan Suci........

Perempuan yg suci adalah perempuan yg dijaga oleh Allah
Tidak sedikit pun Allah membenarkan
Mana-mana lelaki menyentuh dirinya walaupun hatinya
Kerana Allah teramat menyintainya
Tetapi andai kita bergelumang dengan cinta lelaki
Di mana Allah untuk menjaga kita?

Allah seperti melepaskan kita kepada seorang manusia yang lebih banyak mengecewakan kita
Jika Allah mendatangkan kesedaran dalam diri supaya meninggalkan cinta seorang lelaki
Bermakna Allah mahu ambil kita kembali untuk dijagaNya
Mengapa masih ragu-ragu
Kekuatan usah ditunggu tetapi harus dicari
Hargailah di atas kesempatan yang Allah berikan
Sebesar-besar dosa adalah dosa yang dilakukan ketika kita rasa berdosa melakukannya
-Imam Ghazali-

Ukhtiku
Aku bangga melihatmu derita dalam perjuangan
Dari melihatmu gembira dalam kelalaian

Ukhtiku
Aku bangga mendengar tangismu kerana pengorbanan
Dari melihat tawamu dalam pengkhianatan
Aku bangga andai dikau mati di medan kebenaran
Dari hidup dalam kesesatan
Kerana jgn lupa ukhtiku
Muliamu bukan pada pangkat dan harta tapi kerana Islam

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Something for us to remember and bear in our mind!!!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better".
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
Even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute.

About baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship.
Consists of two WHOLE individuals.
Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...
When a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...
You'll make someone smile, another rethinks her choices, and another woman prepare.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
an hour to appreciate them,
a day to love them,
and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Rgds/Oprah
KATA LELAKI : "WANITA ITU LEMAH"

Ujar lelaki, wanita itu lemah
Ujar wanita, mereka adalah lembut
Antara lemah Dan lembut.....
besar perbezaannya
Namun Ada yang tidak rela mengakuinya

Telah ditakdirkan ...
kerana lembut , wanita tidak gemar perbalahan..
Kecuali jika terpaksa, Lalu wanita pun diam
Diam seolah-olah menerima...
Dalam diam, wanita gigih melaksanakan kewajipan
Dalam diam ,wanita terus terusan bekerja
Di pejabat sebagai kerani...di rumah sebagai suri
Dari sebelum tercalit garis putih di subuh Hari
Hingga jarum jam tegak bertindih jari

Lelaki yang mengaku kuat , celik Mata sarapan sudah terhidang
Apabila pulang dari pejabat...di kerusi malas longlai terlentang
Isteri dikatakan lemah...bergelut di dapur memasak
Suami yang mengaku gagah...bersantai di hadapan TV tidak bergerak

Selesai memasak wanita menguruskan anak-anak
Menyapu sampah,mengemas rumah yang berselerak
Lelaki keletihan kerana memandu di jalan sesak
Berehat,menonton TV sambil tergelak

Dalam diam wanita dianggap lemah...terus berlumba dengan masa
Memandikan anak, melipat pakaian dan membasuh baju
Kakitangan semua digerakkan dengan laju
Menyiram pohon-pohon bunga yang mulai layu

Sebelum solat Magrib untuk sujud...
Menyembah yang Satu
Makanan dihidang selepas solat

Selesai kerja rumah,anak-anak diajar mengaji
Sedang suami tersandar semula seperti tadi
Sebagai isteri kesetiaan wanita sentiasa diuji
Dalam diam semua tugas rumah segera dibereskan

Lelaki terpelajar celik hati... Ingin menghapuskan diskriminasi
Lantang membela nasib wanita....
Memberi kesedaran supaya segera bangkit
Meminta lelaki jangan lagi memperlakukan wanita mengikut adab tradisi

Hukum agama telah terpapar
Tugas suami mengemas rumah,menjaga anak
Membasuh pakaian,menyediakan makanan
Jika suami tidak terdaya melakukannya
Seorang pembantu wajar disediakan

Lelaki yang hanyut dalam keasyikan
Tidak mampu menerima perubahan
Rela bertahan bagaimana jua
Asalkan cara hidup tradisi terus dinikmati

Dalam diam
Wanita yang sering dianggap lemah
Meneruskan hidup dalam segala kekuatan

Tak perlu mencari teman secantik BALQIS,
Jika diri tak seindah SULAIMAN,
Mengapa mengharap teman setampan YUSUF,
Jika kasih tak setulus ZULAIKHA,
Tak perlu diri menjadi seteguh IBRAHIM,
Jika tak sekuat SARAH,
Mengapa didamba teman hidup seistimewa KHADIJAH,
Jika diri tak sesempurna RASULULLAH S.A.W,

Tak guna Ada MATA kalau tak dapat MELIHAT,
Tak guna Ada HATI kalau tak tahu MENILAI....


Lonely

You left me alone, I didn’t cry,
I didn’t call you didn’t try.
Out of all the things I chose you,
I said I love you I really do.

But now that you are with her,
I don’t know why I really care.
I tried to get over you,
But I realized that my love is true.

I did all I could to forget,
But I couldn’t do it you bet.
I waited for you on cold nights,
And watched over you from great heights.

Now that you have forgotten me,
I always stand under the tree.
Waiting for you to hold me tight,
And then I see you with her at night.
Finally you start coming to the tree,
just to say, you never loved me.
I Hate

I hate the way you are
I hate the way you laugh
I hate the way you smile
I hate the way you walk
I hate the way you talk
I hate the way you call me

I hate the way you ask how was your day?

I hate you
I hate you
I hate you

But most of all I hate how much I LOVE YOU